David Wagner is living the life: Family man. Millionaire. And always, the funniest guy in the room. But he has one more thing the world can't see...a secret, powerful enough to derail it all.
Based on a true story.
Denial tells the story a life lived in the shadow of an abusive past and the mounting cost to Wagner's relationships, well-being, achievements and sense of self.
Denial shines much-needed light on the "open secret" of sexual abuse by giving a voice to victims that will ignite your compassion for the 60 million male and female survivors in the U.S., while encouraging them to take the first, brave step to stop living in denial by speaking their truths.
Denial exposes the lies planted in the hearts of many survivors.
"It's my fault." The most insidious lie for any survivor is that she or he somehow caused or contributed to the abuse. Self-blame fosters shame, denial and self-contempt, which inevitably lead to despair. This lie -- more than any other -- sustains the abuser's power over victims even into adulthood, while grossly mischaracterizing the violent crime committed against them.
- "Intimacy is the enemy." Their eyes opened prematurely to the dangerous world around them, survivors often misidentify intimacy as the enemy, rejecting healthy love relationships for unhealthy ones, lashing out at those they love out of misplaced self-protection, and ultimately derailing themselves from the path to true healing.
- "Where was God?" In addition to not trusting others with their vulnerability, survivors also struggle with trust in their spiritual relationship as well, struggling with how a loving God could turn his back on innocent children in the grip of evil.
Praise for Denial
Bigger than a Little Black Dress
When you talk about sexual harassment and abuse you focus on the who’s who of perpetrators. What they said. What they did. What they showed their victims.
That’s dust in the wind. The truth about sexual violence lies below the surface.
It’s called the ripple effect.
100 Book Club Countdown
Sexual abuse and sexual assault are in the headlines...again. By adding Denial to your book club's reading list -- and scheduling a live discussion with author Nanette Kirsch -- your book club can enter a timely and important discussion intended to broaden our understanding around the suffering of victims, the cost of living in denial and the opportunity to ensure this open secret remains a secret no more.
Denial gives a voice to victims through the story of one man's life, lived in the shadow of an abusive past. It approaches the topic sensitively and respectfully, yet never shies away from the important, if difficult, truths to be learned.
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Meet the Author
Meet author Nanette Kirsch and learn more about where her passions and her work intersect.
Learn how you can begin a crucial conversation in your community, group, organization or church...one that can make a difference in the lives of survivors you know, as well as those you don't know about, and begin a positive shift in how we respond to childhood sexual abuse in our communities and society.
Consider hosting a fund-raising event for a non-profit that serves survivors' needs and/or promotes prevention/awareness of childhood sexual abuse.